People help us every day, but we don't always have an opportunity to thank them. The good news is that there's no statute of limitations for saying "thank you" to someone. In fact, sometimes it's better to thank a friend with actions instead of words. In the spirit of Thanksgiving, this post lists some very simple actions that you can take to thank just about anyone who's helped you.
Give Referrals: Probably the greatest compliment that you can give to a peer or mentor is to refer business to him or her. The key to a great referral is to be sure that you understand both the business that you're referring, and the person receiving the referral. Done correctly, it's actually a way of thanking both parties. This is why being a good listener is critical to providing quality referrals. One quality referral is worth a thousand unqualified, generic "referrals."
Saying “thank you” to Bloggers: Do you have any peers or mentors who are bloggers? Thanking bloggers who have helped you takes almost no time. Probably the greatest way to thank a blogger is to add a comment to one of his or her blog posts. This can be as simple as just mentioning why you liked a particular post or how it helped you. Another really fast and easy way to say thanks to a blogger is to share a post via your social network. This could mean adding a post to your Facebook page, sharing it with your LinkedIn contacts, retweeting a post on Twitter, or adding a post to one of you social bookmarking sites like StumbleUpon, Digg, or Technorati.
Event Promotion: Do any of the people you want to thank have special events coming up? If so, promoting someone's event is a terrific way of saying thanks. This could be someone's open house, after-hours social event, speaking engagement or webinar. In addition, I've got so many friends who support terrific nonprofit causes-why not help your friends by promoting their cause across your network of family, friends and business connections? This is yet another example of a free way to say “thank you” that is a minimal investment of time.
Secure Speaking Engagements: Are any of the people you want to thank experts in their field? Are they good speakers? If so, then you may want to consider thanking them by finding them speaking engagements. If you’re interested in their message then it’s quite likely that your audience of peers will be interested as well.
Share Some Inspiration: What gets you excited? Hopefully each day you encounter something that inspires or excites you-why not share this with a friend, coworker, peer or client as a way of saying “thank you?” If you share a common bond with them, they will probably find it inspiring as well. This can be especially powerful to friends who may have recently lost a job, gotten sick or just gone through a tough time.
Two books that I find very inspiring and I recommend to all of my peers are Gary Greenfield's Life's Ride or Fall...You Make the Call, and Donna Daisy's Why Wait? Be Happy Now! Sharing inspirational books, quotes, stories or articles are all simple ways to thank someone.
If you've taken the time to read this post, then you owe it to yourself to take a second, take one of the simple action steps above and thank at least one person. Remember, it's never too late to say "thank you."
If you enjoyed this post, please say thanks by adding a comment below or by sharing this with your network. You may also enjoy last week's post, "Thank You To My Peers: Bloggers, Nonprofit Consultants and Direct Mail Professionals."
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